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Hi. Not sure what to say today. My mind goes blank when I sit down to write - not a good sign. Amelia is back at nursery - did I say that before? She seems quite happy to be back, and remembers the other kids and adults. She had a bad (sleepless) night last Thursday, but we're not sure of the cause.

Last Friday morning I took Amelia to Honeylands, a local NHS centre for children with special needs. She's taking part in an assessment programme there to see if there's any support we can give her in the future, especially when school starts. This came about because we were concerned about some sensory integration issues she seemed to have, though those have improved since the initial referral last year. She still has a stutter though, so she will be assessed by a speech therapist, and they will also test her visition, which I think is a good thing too.

You tend to hear lots of criticsm of the NHS - it's the national health service, but people with money often opt for private care due to long waiting lists, complaints about poor standards, etc. But our experience at Honeylands was excellent. The people were all lovely, and the amount of resources applied to just one child - and not a very severely affected one at that - surprised me. She goes again for the next two Fridays, and there's a nursery nurse (basically a preschool carer) there with her the whole time, plus the other specialists.

Weather has been quite warm still, but the leaves are yellowing and falling. Last Saturday we took Amelia up to Bristol to go out to lunch, and then to an attraction called Wildwalk which I find quite hard to sum up, but involves the history of life on earth and lots of ugly insects. This was in celebration of her adoption day, which was three years ago on Sept. 16. Hard to believe.

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Hi, Marie, Ian and Amelia!

Just wanted to say "Happy Adoption Day!" I can't believe that it has already been three years since we were in China.

Isabella started school last week - she is in junior kindergarten. I had predicted that she would have some difficulty adjusting since she has not been in any kind of a formal program and plus the fact that all summer long she has said "I don't want to go to school - don't leave me alone!!" Well, the little monkey skipped into the school on the first day - without so much as looking back! There was only one of us crying that day and it wasn't her!!! She absolutely loves it and I love hearing her little stories when she gets home.

Maddy is now in grade 2 and is quite enjoying it. She is in French-immersion and has loved the challenge of learning a second language. She is seven year old now and I'm finding this age so much fun - very independent in lots of ways but also fun to do things with. We read together each night and it is so nice to be reading books beyond the picture books (though we still read those to Bella!)

Life is busy but fun!

I read on your blog about Amelia's appointment at the children's centre. I'm so glad it has been a positive experience. I'd love to hear more of your impressions and what you find most helpful, etc.

Take care,

Janice,(and Eric and Madeline and Bella)

Three years! My word, how time flies!