Hello there
My mum arrived today. Amelia and I went to pick her up from the bus station. No, she didn't take the bus all the way from New Brunswick. She flew to Heathrow via Halifax and got the bus from there. She went to bed a little while ago, at 9 p.m. She'd been up for 24 hours or maybe more.
Amelia seemed excited to see Granny, and all the little gifts she brought. She even suggested that Granny might need to "buy some more books," for her of course! Amelia's stuttering is still there, though mostly evident when she's tired.
I haven't said anything about toilet training for a while, and I bet you're glad! She's still not completely toilet trained, though she does wear a special type of underwear during the day. According to the current crop of parenting books, most children are potty trained between the ages of 2 and 4. Four! Before I became a parent, I laboured under the illusion that most, if not all, kids were trained by 2, if not earlier. So why does this myth exist? A friend whose son was trained at 3 years and 3 months explained it nicely: all those parents whose kids are trained early brag about it, and those whose kids aren't, don't say anything. And so the myth goes on...
I'm still doing some editing work on the autobiography, the job I got through my friend Linden. I'm almost two-thirds of the way through. I got an e-mail the other day in response to some freelance work I had applied for some time ago, with an e-learning subsidiary of The Guardian newspaper. They had had 300 applications, but they said they would like to use me and were adding me to their database. So maybe something will come of that.
That's all for now.
Comments
The potty training myth is like that myth of children sleeping through the night at six months.
Signed,
Sleepless in Tantallon
Posted by: kenda | May 10, 2006 12:13 PM
Great to hear your mum's there. I wonder if you and she have the same ideas about potty training? Don't stress about it, Marie. We all "get it" eventually, don't we?
Posted by: Dale | May 11, 2006 04:25 PM
Honestly Marie! If it wasn't for the myths, who would have children?
Posted by: Chad | May 15, 2006 12:36 AM
Hi Marie, Elaine is also not fully through the potty training. Last week, she made some progress after we did not put any diaper on. She tried hard to hold the pee, then sit on potty sometimes more then a hour. We just put the potty at the front of TV. One day she peed in her pants. After that day, she started to call and pee right away on the potty!
Posted by: David | May 16, 2006 09:17 PM